What have I learnt from my children?
In honour of International Women’s Day, we share some thoughts about what being a mum means to some of the ladies that connect with rt health fund.
Children learn by what they see
‘My girls are now almost 21 and 19 and over their lifetime, I have learnt (finally) that they really do learn things from you by watching the way you do things again and again.
In order for them to live happily and healthily, I realise that I need to be living that way too. If I don’t love myself enough to look after myself well, that’s what they will learn too. You know that safety instruction that you’re given on airplanes about putting on your own oxygen mask first? Well I understand that this is so important in so many ways …
My children have brought me to the peaks of joy and pride, and to the depths of despair and frustration. So I guess you could say they have also taught me to be resilient.’
Fiona Riley, Transport Women Australia Ltd (TWAL)
A child’s smile can lift you from the worries of the world!
‘My children have taught me that no matter what is going on in our lives, that the smile of an innocent child can make all the worries in the world disappear – even if only momentarily!’
Katrina Jorgensen, Queensland Rail
‘What have I learnt from my children? One of the biggest factors is the value of being ‘present!’ No amount of gifts can make up for not being there when your children need you.’
Lisa Acret, Queensland Trucking Association Ltd.
I now know that if it is to be …
‘I have learnt a couple of things from my children …
- If it’s to be, then it’s up to me …
- Self-belief. My children have shown me the importance of being the best you can be. Have dreams and ambitions and then do what you can to bring them to fruition.’
Maureen Paterson, Encompass Credit Union
To be a better person
‘I have learnt some very important lessons from my two daughters, most of all to not be selfish.
Having to be totally responsible for these precious girls and raising them to become independent, selfless women has made me take a good look at myself. And I am still learning from them! I can definitely say that I am certainly a better person for having them.
My mum reminded me the other day that family and relationships are all that matters. And it’s true.’
Jen Bogaart, rt health fund member
Excitement for the future
‘What I feel that I have learnt most from my beautiful seven-month-old son so far is that joy and innocence still exists in the world that we live in.
Seeing life through his eyes is so very refreshing. It really is the simple things in life that matter. I feel so blessed to have a happy and healthy son whom my husband Brenton and I adore beyond measure and would do anything for. I’m sure that every parent feels exactly the same.
I am so very excited for the future and all of the milestones to come as we watch little Oliver grow up and experience the wonderful journey of life.’
Rachael Tickner, QRI Lifestyle
It’s about patience and understanding
‘I am blessed to be the mother of four wonderful children (two amazing adults and two school-age children) and have learnt many things. But one of the most significant of these is the need for patience and understanding.
My children make me stop, listen and really appreciate the important things in life. Children feel happy and secure when they have good friends around them and I have learnt to appreciate the comfort that comes from friendship, both in their lives and in my own. I enjoy the funny things they do, we laugh a lot. And, I love joining them when they are being creative – it helps keep me feeling young.’
Mary Mason, rt health fund member
Patience is a virtue
‘As a mum to three beautiful children, I have learnt to cultivate patience – which I really didn’t believe I had in me. I have also learnt not to assume anything, not to jump to conclusions and to understand that things are not always as they might seem at first.’
Linda Rollason, rt health fund member
Sharing life, love and counsel
‘My children are now adults in their own right – loving and capable wives and mothers. I have learnt that you cannot love too much or give too much of your time, presence or counsel, and that I am still a part of their lives as they will always be a part of mine. I know that, to them, it is very important that I take care of my health and remain active and that they want to know about and be a part of my life, just as I want to know what is happening in their lives and my grandchildren’s lives. These are the things that are important to me.’
Maureen McAlorum, rt health fund member
Sharing life, love and counsel
‘My children have taught me to not hold grudges. A stressful morning of spilt cereal, half-dressed children, forgotten library bags and meltdowns over lost, adorable purple unicorns can all be forgotten when they give you a hug and tell you that you’re the best mum in the world. Or, they flash a cheeky smile with a freshly picked flower in their hand!’
Ali Rees, rt health fund member
This message is brought to you by rt health fund’s Strategic Business Development Manager, Rebecca Delahaye and Key Account Managers; Alison Weatherill, David Stock and Cassandra Reynolds.